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​The Death of Creativity

12/2/2020

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Another Walk in the Park
Comparing ourselves to others is a certain death to our confidence.  Comparing ourselves to others is a form of separation and division. When we compare ourselves, we typically see ourselves in a diminished light. (Oh, I’m not as good a writer as the others in this circle). At times we may see ourselves as better than others. (Oh, I can do better than that.) Both divide you from within and without.  From within you are divided from your creative and vulnerable self. From without, you have put an invisible wall between you and others.
 
Comparison is always a death roll. It will always diminish you.  Write about that.
 
Instead,  consider the beauty of contrast. Seeing and creating from contrast is an invitation to celebrate differences. An invitation to stay in the conversation and learn from one another or from our surroundings. Contrast is a display of variation and how differences interact and effect each other; like how light contrasts with the dark. Or how your writing contrasts with mine.
 
As I walked through Stewart Park yesterday, I witnessed the shadow of the trees appearing on other trees. The hoarfrost sparkled on the green and browning path. The contrasts of light and dark and shadow made my walk spellbinding.
 
The shadows gave character to the light. Recognizing differences from a contrasting point of view rather than a comparison point of view, will offer up more to the creative mind.  If I had been comparing yesterday’s walk with the day’s before I may have missed the grandeur of this walk.
 
In our writing and life how can we transform our drive to compare into a beautiful contrast?  Write about that?
 
What are the contrasts in your life and stories?  Write about that.
 
How have you compared your present day self to the past or future self? Write about that.
 
How has your comparisons separated you from others? From your creative self?  Write about that.
 
What and to whom do you compare yourself? Write about that.
 
How can you transform all your comparisons into a beautiful, invitational contrasts? Write about that.


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Christine DeSmet link
12/2/2020 10:58:54 am

Julie,
What an important message. We writers are always thinking we "should" be doing more or be like other writers, and that's usually what is termed "chasing our tail." My motto is "Write with joy and finish with finesse." Every writer is unique and that's a wonderful thing to applaud and remember. Thank you for posting this message.

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    Author and counselor Julie Tallard Johnson
    I live in Mount Horeb WI where I walk (snow shoe in the winter) my dogs through Stewart Park or Military Trail, garden my corner lot, wear a mask in public (and a cape at night). I love to write & connect to writers and spiritual seekers. My book The Clue of the Red Thread is my latest of eleven, written in collaboration with Parker J Palmer and poet Rebecca Cecchini  The Clue of the Red Thread: Discovering Fearlessness & Compassion in uncertain times  came out in January, 2021 through Shanti Arts, Nine Rivers Imprint. 

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